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Life is gonna screw you - but will you let it win?

No matter who you are, no matter where you're born, no matter what you do........... life is going to screw you hard. That is a fact, if it didn't happen for you, just give it time, it will.
Some may call it midlife crisis, some may call it hard childhood......... life is going to hit you hard, but will you let it win?

We'll think that there wouldn't be problems a million dollars can't solve. I'm pretty sure there are a set of problems that haunt millionaires around the world, and we'll have the problems that our life choices or state of our life brings.
Be anything the case, people will be having problems with their lives.

The answer some people choose - suicide!

Let me tell you a little back story. And why I'm writing this.
I'm a upsc aspirant ( 2018). My dream job is to be an IAS, I don't know I'll make it.
But to me, and people around me think that once I get this job, it's done. The end credits will roll.
( Names you can get on google)
There was once an honest ias officer, who just wanted to do his job, as promised by him, as he believed to be the right way. The system turned against him, feeling beaten , he committed suicide.
Another officer thought that if he played along with the system, maybe he can have an easy way. He got caught, people turned against him, the whole family committed suicide.

I know another person, who was supposed to help people and lift people up when they failed to achieve this dream of theirs. He was to be an example, he was for me, that you still can go to great heights even if you failed to clear upsc, and too old to get a regular job and be content with it. Recently something happened, and he committed suicide.
I'm not judging people that they were wrong to choose this way out, i didn't travel in their shoes.

No one can escape life's hard hits.
Rocky Balboa puts this perfectly.
It's not about how hard you hit, it's about how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward.

https://youtu.be/D_Vg4uyYwEk

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